Death and a Holiday That Commemorate The Dead

     Memorial Day Weekend, it's another three day weekend.  What is this holiday all about?  Is it the beginning of beach weekends, pool openings, and the beginning of celebrating warm weather, the official start of barbecue season?  No, that is not what it's all about, although those things are part of the weekend.  Let's start with a little history given by Wikipedia:

     "Memorial Day is a federal holiday in the United States for remembering the men and women who died while serving in the country's armed forces.^[1] The holiday, which is celebrated every year on the last Monday of May,^[2] was formerly known as Decoration Day and originated after the American Civil War to commemorate the Union and Confederate soldiers who died in the war. By the 20th century, Memorial Day had been extended to honor all Americans who have died while in the military service.^[1] It typically marks the start of the summer vacation season, while Labor Day marks its end.

Many people visit cemeteries and memorials, particularly to honor those who have died in military service. Many volunteers place an American flag on each grave in national cemeteries.

Annual Decoration Days for particular cemeteries are held on a Sunday in late spring or early summer in some rural areas of the American South, notably in the mountains. In cases involving a family graveyard where remote ancestors as well as those who were deceased more recently are buried, this may take on the character of an extended family reunion to which some people travel hundreds of miles. People gather on the designated day and put flowers on graves and renew contacts with kinfolk and others. There often is a religious service and a "dinner on the ground," the traditional term for apotluck meal in which people used to spread the dishes out on sheets or tablecloths on the grass. It is believed that this practice began before the American Civil War and thus may reflect the real origin of the "memorial day" idea.^[3]"

     Now, with the history portion out of the way, what does Memorial Day mean in 2014?  It is still a day that we commemorate those who have given their lives for the liberties that we enjoy in the United States of America.  How these people came to lose their lives is not he issue, but it's a hot button for some people.  No one joins the military to support war, they do that out of a sense of patriotism.  Patriotism that used to be a very altruistic reason.  For the love of our country, for the love of the American flag, pride in our country.  Something that has sorely been distorted and lost in recent years.  We should not lose the pride in our country because we have politicians that are crooked or cheating the system, or using the people.  This should make us upset and want to change things, but don't hate the country because of the people that have been elected to run it.  What we need to do is change the people who are in office and that are making people unhappy and not following the will of the people.  It's time for us to stand united again and change things that need to be changed.  

     With that said, let's not forget that the real reason for this particular three day weekend, and holiday is to commemorate and send love and admiration for the people who lost their lives supporting this country, serving their country, being patriotic.  Connect with those loved ones, send them love.

  Intuitively, I've been shown that the reason these people did what they did and serve their country is because they loved the country and believed in what they were doing.  I've connected with many through the years of doing psychic medium readings, and often military will come through showing themselves in their dress uniform, and it is with pride that they show me that uniform.  It's something that in their lifetime they were very proud of, and should be.  In other words, they did what they did for the right reasons.  And we should celebrate their lives for the right reasons as well.  None of us has to support war, but we should always support those willing to stand up for their beliefs and support our country.

   I hope you all had a wonderful Memorial Day Weekend.  Love and Light to each of you.  If you'd like to connect with a loved one, set up a psychic medium reading, go to www.heavencallingearth.com, or email pam@heavencallingearth.com.

A Tribute To Mothers

     Mother, noun

1. 1.

   a woman in relation to a child or children to whom she has given birth.

   synonyms:

   female parent, materfamilias, matriarch;

verb

1.

bring up (a child) with care and affection.

"the art of mothering.

     Mother, the woman in your life that gave birth to you, that gave you life, without whom you would not be here.  Everyone on earth has a mother, but I dare say that no everyone has a mom.  Some people do not realize or acknowledge that there is a difference in being a mother and being a mom.  You can be one without being the other.  Mother is the more formal name or word for the woman who gave birth.  Mom is less formal and seemingly more affectionate, also used is mommy, momma, maw.  The bond between a mother and child is like no other bond, whether that is a good bond or a bad one, there is nothing that comes close to it.  

   As a psychic medium, I have for years seen all kinds of relationships between mothers and their children.  The bond between the two starts from the moment the woman finds out that she is pregnant.  It has been said that a woman intuitively knows the moment of conception.  With this possibility, there is time between the two that not another can even come close to sharing.  While the closest thing to this bond can be that of the father and child, it is inherently different, and that's a discussion for another day.  Maternal instincts are said to be so strong, that there are times when certain animals will take in strays from a completely different type of animal.  It can be seen where a dog that has just given birth to pups and there's an abandoned piglet will be adopted by the mother dog knowing the need for love and tender care.  On the other end of the spectrum, some can give birth and be completely devoid of drop of maternal feelings.  This can be caused by hormonal changes in the body, or with a person who never wanted to be a mother in the first place.  When and where these things come in has left many wondering and perplexed.

     A child who is raised by a parent who has no maternal instincts, will undoubtedly be seeking that kind of attention and affection in other places.  There are so many issues on all sides of this and I'm going to try to address just a few.   When we come into this life, we come with a life plan, if you will.  The way I like to explain it is, we sit down with a guidance counselor (spirit guide) before we incarnate.  There are life lessons that must be learned.  There are mandatory classes (life lessons) and there are electives.  For example, patience is a mandatory life lesson and we get it over and over again not only each lifetime, but more than likely, each year of our life.  Let's say an elective might be service to others.  It might be an elective in this lifetime, but it was a mandatory or a major lesson in another lifetime.  We travel in soul groups.  When someone says, will I meet my soul mate, I have to remind them sometimes that we really travel in groups, and so there is more than one.  That as a romantic component is yet again, something else.  While traveling in these soul groups, we make agreements who we are going to learn certain lessons with.  As you can imagine, choosing parents, and choosing certain lessons with those souls is and can be a big deal.  There is also the karmic element involved in these relationships as well.  We should always remember though that before we were born into the current lifetime, we made the agreements to experience the things that come up in  any given lifetime.  This is especially difficult to imagine when you look at things like, a child having cancer, or a parent passing when the child is very young.  Most of the difficult experiences, it's hard to believe that anyone would knowingly choose to go through them.  The karmic piece is when there is something from a prior lifetime that was not "paid for" in that lifetime, and it must be taken care of in the current lifetime.  

     I've been asked over and over again, why would someone choose to …. or have an agreement for one to die by way of a drunk driver, or go through the experience of cancer, or some sort of abuse.  The answers that I've been given and the explanations as shown to me have to do with soul evolution.  With each experience comes lessons that help the soul advance to new levels of compassion, empathy, and deeper love.  In the years that I have been doing psychic and psychic medium work, I don't believe I've ever been shown love that is deeper than a parent's love.  With this kind of deep love, it can also be the deepest of all hurts that can be leveled against a person, knowingly or unknowingly.  There can be a situation where the child, even if that child is an adult, can feel very deep pain because they don't feel loved by their parent.  A child always seeks the love, approval,  acceptance and admiration of their parents.  How it is sought and the impact is a very individual thing.  What can be very devastating to one person is not even a mark on another, but there is always an impact.

     Children area God's gift to a woman.  However, not all women see them as gifts.  There are women who would give anything to have a child of their own, and equally, there are women who wish they had never had a child.  Make no mistake, there is a purpose in both, and life lessons for both sides of the equation.  There is no one right answer.  As tragic as it is for the many unloved and abused children, those things sometimes mold them into being people who will make changes in the world for future generations because of the experiences they had.  A child that lost his or her mother to cancer decides to grow up to be an oncologist to try to help find a cure for cancer because they don't want another child to have to experience what they did.  Or a mother who lost a child to a drunk driver, become a part of the organization MADD to help with the awareness of drunk driving.  

     So, yes, there are children who have been born to mothers who are not the best mom, but remember the life lessons that the person doesn't remember they chose right now.  I encourage you, if you are going through a difficult time, take time to pray and then meditate.  Ask to be shown what is the lesson I'm supposed to get from this difficult time.  Show me, so that I might learn the lesson and move on to the next one.  Let me learn the lesson so that I might love deeper and progress on my soul journey.  Allow me to be an example of something good to other mothers and children, that instead of causing pain, I give something that fills a heart with love, kindness and understanding.  

     Today, this is a tribute to mothers that we hope will all become "moms to their children" and be thought of lovingly.  If you know a mother that's maybe not the best mom, instead of judging her harshly, give her a hug, you may be the one who makes a difference in her life, so she can begin to make that difference for her children.  Give that child, who has a mother, but not a mom, a little extra care and attention, so they can see, yes, there are people who care and love them, too.    If you have lost a loved one, and would like to connect with them, you'd like a psychic medium reading, visit my website, www.heavencallingearth.com.  Maybe you some insight into a life situation, a little guidance because you feel stuck and you're no sure which way to turn, send an email to pam@heavencallingearth.com and you can find out how to set up an appointment for a reading.  Until next time, I send you love and light.

Meditation, The Answer to Your Prayers.

     As we move into March and get closer to the spring and warm weather, I know everyone is looking forward it.  Most, if not, all of us are over the winter.  We seem to have been blasted really well with the snow, sleet and ice.  Now it's time to melt not only the cold weather, but our hearts and listen for the answers we are seeking.

    

     Often I am asked, how can I get my own answers?  Or, how do I get in tune with my spirit guides?  The key to this is always meditation.  Many people attempt meditation, but then quit out of frustration and an inability to quiet the mind and listen to that internal guidance.  I understand this frustration and the throwing up of the hands.  I'm brought back to a time in early adult life when I was asked by a gentleman, one I had a great deal of admiration and respect for, "How do you know when God answers your prayers?"  This question was a little surprising to me, but it was also an eye-opener to me.  The thought immediately running through my head was, "What do you mean, how do you know when God answers your prayers?  I hear him just like I hear you."  Then the voice in my head said, "Wow, God picked me!  I hear and see things other people don't hear."  Now, for some they consider it to be a curse, for me, I've always viewed it as a blessing.  Again, that feeling of "Wow, God picked me."  But then further, what did God pick me for?  To get the answers to that question I knew I would have to listen closely.  

     There are those that can go into a meditation and journey without a moment of thought.  Then there are those who I will call, "wheel spinners".  What is a wheel spinner?  My definition of that is a person that when they try go to that place of quiet, calm, and relaxation in order to listen for their guidance, or their answers, they immediately start thinking of all the things they need to do.  This list can range anywhere from buying groceries, fixing meals, doing laundry, going shopping for something they need for the home.  It's the place in our mind where we've stored our to-do list.  In meditation we are not trying to access our to-do list, we are trying to access our spirit guides, and our higher-self, if you will.  

     First, I would like to say that prayer and meditation go hand in hand.  One is useless without the other.  Prayer is the method by which we let our needs and desires be known.  We are asking or requesting, that can be for something material, something emotional, an answer that seems to elude us, a need for a loved one to be healed, guidance on how to proceed in a desired goal.  The list can go on and on, it's endless the things that we pray for.  But make no mistake about it, prayer is just as essential as meditation.  For without making the request, or asking the questions there is no need for answers.  The answers come through the meditation.  

     So, now we proceed with going into a meditation.  Our environment for meditation is just as important.  You wouldn't or shouldn't meditate in a car while driving, or in a subway while riding the train.  These are examples of places that you need to be completely aware of what's going on around you at any given time.  Though there have been times in everyone's life when they have ended up in a place, and couldn't remember how the trip.  My opinion is that you should have a place to meditate that is calm and serene, you feel totally comfortable.  When getting ready to meditate I like to light a few candle,  and burn some incense.  It adds to the peacefulness of what I'm about to do.  This is totally up to each individual.  If you are a person who i s a wheel spinner, I'm sure you can understand why you wouldn't do a meditation in the middle of a coffee shop.

     Now to decide can I listen to metaphysical or new age music and get to where I want to go.  When a person meditates they are attempting to reach an alpha state in their mind.  This i s a state of your body, more or less, being asleep, and your mind is fully awake and aware.  After doing meditation for a period of time, you might actually feel the vibration in your body.  Some people hear their answers, and some actually see images, similar to having a dream, but in a completely awake and aware state of mind.  This is the type of meditation that everyone seeks to have.  If you don't get there on your first attempt, do not be discouraged.  It sometimes take a "wheel-spinner" up to two weeks to get there.  Do not fret, because with continued practice even the biggest "wheel-spinner" can accomplish.  Normally what I suggest to people who have a hard time quieting their minds is to start with a guided meditation, whether that is in a group setting, or by purchasing a CD that has a guided meditation on it.  Usually, you can get a CD like that for less than $20.  There are many guided meditations on the market.  Some of the people who have made guided meditations are James Van Praagh, Dr. Brian Weiss, John Edward, and that's just to name a few.  I have had great experiences with Dr. Weiss's CDs.  His are the ones that I recommend most often to my friends and clients.  You will find that once you have mastered the guided meditation, which basically guides you through the steps of relaxation, and journeying in your meditation, then you can move onto an instrumental piece to work with.  The reason the guided meditation works so well, is because instead of going right to your to-do place, you go to that alpha state by focusing on the guide's instructions.  

   When you get to the point where you wish to use instrumental pieces, then you will find pieces like Anugama's Shamanic Dreams II to be very nice to work with.  There are so many, and you need only do a little practice to find the pieces that you resonate with.  I suggest that you try several different artists before settling on the one that works best for you.  Enya, Enigma, Steven Halpern all have very nice pieces that have helped a great many people.  Find what works the best for you and use it.  

     As you meditate your answers can come to you through hearing what is being said to you, or even having psychic visions.  The more practice your meditation the better you will become at it.  As with anything, practice, practice, practice.  

     Remember, pray and make your requests, and then meditate to get your answers.  When you have reached a place of true connection, you know when the answers come you can trust them.  When you start trusting them and following that guidance you get more and more guidance and it be more and more clear.

    It is my hope that you find the answers you are seeking and that continued reading and following of this blog helps you find the love and light you are looking for.  Until we blog again, keep reaching for the stars and searching for your answers.  Don't forget to follow the blog and look me up on Facebook, Linkedin and Twitter.  You can visit me at www.heavencallingearth.com.  

    

Opening Your Own Intuitive Abilities/Programming Your Internal GPS

     The vast majority of the country is experiencing the effects of the "Polar Vortex".  It's cold outside, but today we are gong to talk about something that's sure to warm your insides.  I've been asked more times than I can count, are people born with psychic abilities, or is it a learned trait.  The answer is yes, to a degree both.  And the follow up to that question would undoubtedly be, how can it be yes to both? Today I'm going to try explain how it can be yes to both.

     First, my belief is that when God said that he made man in his own image, he didn't mean that we looked like him, two arms, a head, two legs, two ears and a mouth.  He meant that when he said, "Let there be light, and there was light, " that we have that ability.  More people reject this idea because it is easier to blame someone or something else for what happens in our lives, than to take responsibility for it.  We are all born with what I call an Internal GPS.  In order for it to work for us, all we need to do is become "in tune" with it.  Let's think for a minute how a GPS works, once you program it to where you want to go, it will give you directions, and if you get off route it will let you know that you've missed a turn, it will then reroute and give you alternative directions.  Our GPS works in much the same way.  More often than not, though most ignore the directions, after it lest us know we've missed a turn, it will give you a sign, and after you have ignored it enough times it will just go silent.  When we listen to those directions, it gets louder and louder, thus giving you more and more information.  

     An example of how the guidance works, you are driving down the road, getting ready to get on the highway, but you hear this little voice that says, no, don't get on the highway, it's backed up.  You ignore that and get on the highway, only to find out that the highway is indeed backed up.  Frustration comes and you say, I wish I'd listened to that little voice.  Another good example, is the sun is shining and the weatherman says there's only a ten percent chance of rain.  No real need to take the umbrella with you.  Your GPS says differently, it will come up sudden, and it will be a torrential downpour, this time you listen and take the umbrella.  And the rain comes, you feel so glad that you listened to that guidance.  

     Each of us has a team that works for and with us.  Our team consists of spirit guides, guardian angels, and loved ones that have crossed over.  When we don't listen to the guidance, they just question and say, why bother, he/she is not listening any way.  The times when you listen, they do a little happy dance and say, "Hey, she's listening, let's tell her more."  And it gets more frequent and louder.  How you are listening and hearing that guidance is your own intuitive abilities that we are given at birth.  If the intuitive gifts have been turned off due to not listening, then one must relearn how to use them, to become in tune with them so that it work towards your highest and best good.  

     How do you open your psychic or intuitive abilities and program your GPS?  One of the biggest keys to doing this is learning to meditate.  Meditation sounds easy, but in reality for a lot of people it is difficult.  We live in a world where most of us operate on sensory overload, therefore shutting down and tuning in to that quiet place in our mind is very difficult, if not impossible.  One of the best ways to be able to accomplish this is through the use of a guided meditation.  Many psychics have produced guided meditation, as well others.  A very good guided meditation that I often recommend to people is one by Dr. Brian Weiss called Mirrors In Time.  But like authors and books, not everyone will resonate.  If one doesn't work for you, try another one until you find that works.  Don't give up on the first try though, give it at least five days of good effort.  Then you can try another.    Getting to that quiet place in your mind is important so you will be able to listen to that guidance.  Learning to listen and trust the guidance is key to unlocking your intuitive/psychic gifts.

     Once you have mastered meditation, you can start asking or focusing on a question or an area of your life that you need guidance in.  I always suggest that you start small, so you can learn to trust the guidance.  I am conducting a workshop on February 22nd in Fredericksburg, Virginia to teach people how to Open their Own Psychic Abilities, and Programming Their Own GPS.  Pre-registration in required for participation in the workshop, and limited to 20 guests.  We will be doing meditations, sending and receiving messages, psychometry, and energy imprints.  To register go to www.heavencallingearth.com, and get in touch with me.  

     I hope this blog has warmed you up to your psychic gifts and how to use your GPS.  It doesn't do much to get rid of the Polar Vortex, but it's a good distraction at least.  I send you love and light and look forward to the next time we blog.

Eternal Life, Reincarnation and Past Lives

     Welcome to 2014!  This year has so many great things to behold.  As we look forward to this new year ahead of us, I've been asked to look backwards and talk a bit about past lives, reincarnation and eternal life.  Let me start off by saying, in no way do I claim to an expert on this subject.  Really, I believe I'm in the infant stages of learning about it all.  As many of you are, I'm hungry for knowledge on the subject.    I believe that when we seek knowledge about these things our best friend can be reading.  Choose as many authors as you can, read as much as you can, take hold of what resonates with you and throw the rest back.

    

     My firm belief is that Life on Earth, is "school".  We are here to learn lessons, repay karmic lessons, and experience as much as we possibly can.  This has been my take on the subject for a long while now.  First, I believe very strongly that we do have eternal life.  The eternal life that is referenced in the Bible along with other books on the subject.  Part of the way we have eternal life is that we incarnate on earth, and we live through a lifetime, we finish that lifetime and we then "die" or "passover" into the spirit/heavenly realm.  Birth here is death in that realm, and death here is birth into that one, hence we are eternal.  A quote that I read a long time ago really resonated with me on that subject, it was "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience, but we are spiritual beings having a human experience."  It lends a great definition for what and who we really are.  To understand things we have to use terms or words that we can understand in this dimension.  And there are so many things that there are no words to make us fully understand the other dimensions and realms that exist.  Many of you have probably heard of the Akashic Records.  The Akashic Records are the records for each soul and being and their lifetimes, their experiences, their karma.  It could also be called the The Book of Life, as it is referenced in the Bible.  

     A rather simplistic way that I've been shown how we do things in the spirit realm/heavenly dimension is that when we are planning an earthly lifetime, if you will, we sit down with what I will call guidance counselors, or an elders to go over what lessons we want to learn in the up coming lifetime.  Just like in high school, there are mandatory lessons/classes, and there are electives.  Patience is a mandatory lesson in every lifetime, and it comes up multiple times.  Some of the lessons include tolerance, service, and humility.  This is just to name a few.  I'm sure everyone is aware that the way we learn patience is to put in a position of having to wait for something.  When that lesson comes up we have a tendency to say, "hey, wait, I already learned that lesson. Can you hurry up and give me what I want now?"  Obviously, we haven't learned it as well as we may think we have.    How about tolerance, now this is one that can be learned in so many different ways.  You may come in being part of a group that hasn't been given that tolerance, it can be done through race, sexual orientation, disability, economic level.  There's no way I could possibly list all the ways that tolerance can come up in life lessons.  Service to others is another lesson.  You may learn it through having a child that has a disability, or a relative that gets a terminal illness, or by serving your country.  I believe you get the general idea here of how these things come up.  Just like school, if you don't get the lesson, pass it so to speak, you are going to repeat it.

    When you have something that keeps coming up, and you can't figure out why there is definitely a life lesson attached to it.  A good example of this is when a person keeps getting into abusive relationships.  Let's say there's a woman and she is with a guy who is an abuser, whether it's verbal abuse, emotional abuse, or physical abuse, there are a multitude of lessons that can be involved here.  I actually had a client that was in an abusive relationship for a number of years.  After a big altercation where she was choked she ended the relationship.  She was moving along very nicely and had, in fact, met a man who was wonderful to her.  For Valentine's he bought her an iPod and loaded it with love songs.  He treated like a true princess.  Shortly after Valentine's Day she ended the relationship and went back to the abuser.  In her mind and part of her being she was associating being loved with being abused.  The new guy wasn't abusing her, so therefore he couldn't really love her.  This association could have started anywhere.  It could have been from the relationship her parents had, or the one she had with her parents, it could have even come from a past lifetime.  In any event, her lesson here was to learn that abuse does not equal love.  Until she could break that definition and association in her mind then she would continue to look for love in abusive relationships.    This is a primary reason that when we have something that is going wrong in our life we need to look closely at it and determine what the lesson is, learn it, and be able to move onto the next one, and to happier times.

     These types of lessons bring us up to "soul mates".  I can't tell you the number of times I've had people ask me about when they will meet their "soul mate", or they think they have and it's just not working out the way they want it to.  We do not have just one "soul mate".  From everything I've been shown, and learned from others as well, is that we travel in soul groups.    In these soul groups we agree to learn certain lessons together.  Before we go to the romantic end of that, lets explore other parts of those soul agreements.  For instance, you have a drunk driver and he/she hits a car full of teenagers and kills them, or disables or maims them.  While the agreement is not in the forefront of the conscious mind, there was an agreement to go through this lesson or lessons for all involved.  There's also the possibility of it being attached to a karmic repayment.  If in a past life you were an abuser, you may come into your next life being on the other side of the abuse.  If you were the abuser this time you may be the abused.  

     Another area of question is the fact that souls do not have a sex.  In any given lifetime we choose what sex we will be.  Also the relationships can change around in lifetimes.  You may be the mother in one lifetime, a brother or sister in another or a friend.  A husband and wife in one lifetime maybe nothing more than friends in another.  When there has been a very strong connection when you come into contact in the current lifetime you will feel a very strong magnetic pull toward each other.  That magnetic pull may draw you close, and it can be one sided.  It's good to be mindful of that.  There are so many things that come into play, it would have been beneficial if we came with an instruction manuel.  But I guess that's the whole point, to learn the lessons.  As our souls get older, we may remember, or it's considered to be awakening.  It's not a matter of finding out who we are, but remembering who we are.  

      There are many authors on this subject.  Dr. Brian Weiss is one I would consider an expert on the subject.  He has written many books on the subject, offers guided meditation, or self hypnosis  CDs, as well as conducting workshops on the matter.  His first book is Many Masters Many Lives.  A few of the others books are Through Time Into Healing, Same Soul Different Body, Love is Eternal.  A meditation CD that I recommend frequently to my clients is Mirrors In Time.   Ian Stephenson has written Life Before Life, and Children Who Remember Previous Lives.  I also enjoyed Tom Shroder's book Old Souls.  If you are looking other books just do a search of past lives, reincarnation and the like, you will come up with an endless list.  Do your own research and enjoy the study.  Take what resonates with you and toss the rest back.  Most of all enter in with an open mind and heart.

     I've been asked that as a psychic medium am I able to see past lives for a person.  There are times when it will come up in a psychic reading, or a psychic medium reading.  When it comes up it is because the knowledge gained from it can help you currently.  If you are really interested in searching out knowledge of your past lives, you can do a past life regression.  Doing a regression can be very beneficial in helping learn and remember who you really are.

     When we remember we are here to learn life lessons, repay karma, and experience as much as we possibly can it gives a whole new perspective on eternal life, past lives, and soul mates.  Let us all remember and realize that the biggest lesson of all that we are here to learn is Unconditional Love.  Until next time, I send you Universal Love and Light.  

Psychic Reading for Spiritual Beings Having a Human Experience

     I hope you are enjoying this holiday season, no matter what the holiday is that you are celebrate.  It has been requested again that I answer a few questions about psychics, psychic mediums, and the information that we get.  First, I'd like to say that I'm of the belief that none of us has all the answers.  And as psychics and psychic mediums we, too, are on the same journey as everyone else.  We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.  Where we are on that journey varies from person to person.  There are people that realize and are awakened to the fact that we are spiritual beings having  human experience, and there are others that are still firmly planted in the concept that we are human beings having a spiritual experience.  And which side of that camp you land on has direct impact on what experiences you have, and how you interpret those experiences.
     At times some think one experience is  more important than another.  This is point of contention among many.  My personal philosophy on this is, while a certain experience that I have may be more important to me than another experience that I have, but none of my experiences are more important to another person than the ones they have.  The reason for that is that while we are collectively on a soul journey, we are also individually on a our soul journey.  In other words, the sum total of my experiences impact my soul journey, as do the sum total of another person's experience impact theirs.  It's the end result of those things that make us who we are, and help us to grow as spiritual beings.  The individuals who are still under the thought process that we are human beings having a spiritual experience are just as important as the other way around.  For those individuals have not yet reached the awakening that this human experience is only one aspect of who and what we are.  If one hasn't reached that point yet, it's difficult to wrap your mind around that concept.
    A thought that recently came to the forefront of my thinking is, what if, like in the James Cameron movie, Avatar, there are multiple dimensions, and we know that there are, and we can create an Avatar, if you will, to travel into that other dimension.  Now, give some thought to this is the dimension in which in our bodies this is the Avatar.  Our human body is the avatar, and the experiences we have are the creation of our thoughts.  In other words, we are creating this reality by our thoughts, and where the majority of the humans spend their time thinking, worrying about, and creating has manifested the situations we find ourselves in today.  Wouldn't that mean we have the ability to change the bad things, turn them into good things.  We can create abundance for every living being on the planet, in the universe, in this dimension.  There really is no shortage of anything, there really is no illness.  We create them by our thought energy.  We spend time creating lack, we spend time creating anger, hatred, war.  The majority of people now have at some point heard about Power of Positive Thinking, by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale; The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne, The Law of Attraction, by Esther and Jerry Hicks; and let's not leave out Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsh.  All of these books talk about what we can create by our thoughts.  Thoughts become words, words are energy.  Words have Power.  We create our own realities by our thoughts and our words.
     One might question if individuals in control know this, individuals with political power, world power, why then would they not encourage people to think about the abundance, think about love, peace, health, and healing?  Well, the short answer to that is it is not to their benefit for societies to know that they have this kind of power.  And or people to come together in these types of meditations and prayers knowing that they can create all that is desired and all the tis needed.  The individuals in that kind of control and power are usually driven by greed, or someone else's greed.  You cannot control large groups of people if those people know they can create their own happiness and abundance without you.  You know longer have a need to be dependent on them for decisions that effect you.  The groups of people are not in fear of not having food, they're not in fear of being terrorized, or killed in their own lands.  It's a form of enslavement.  Enslavement to their thought process for their benefit.  As more of souls awaken to the fact that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and that we are creating that experience for our soul growth, it is a freeing from all of these kinds of enslavement.  That thinking alone is enslavement.  Isn't it time that more and more people wake up and break free of those bonds that keep us tied down by someone else's agenda.
     Recently I was asked when doing psychic readings, or psychic medium readings would the vast majority of people rather I tell them what they want to hear, or tell them what I do hear and see.  This varies with the individual having the reading.  While there are readers that will tell a client what they want to hear for fear that the person will be upset with them for telling them what they do hear and see, I am not one of those readers.  My belief is in this regard is that I am allowed to decide how I deliver the message, I am not at liberty to choose what messages I deliver.  Also, if something that may seem of a negative nature comes through to me to give to a client it is for one of two reasons, one because it is something that can be changed; i.e. I see a possible car accident or something of this nature, if that was inevitable and could not be changed they would not show it to me.  But let's say I'm getting the message that "Aunt Sallie" is ill with a terminal illness, and she's not gong to recover and there are things that need to be said and haven't been, then I'm shown that it's time to make sure all things have been addressed, to give the person the opportunity to say, I love you, I'm sorry, whatever they need to say, so there will be no regrets.  My longtime friend and radio host, Scott Cluthe, whom I've done radio with for years, introduces me on his show as someone who doesn't sugar coat things, he says I tell it like it is.  I do not deliver in a harsh or cruel manner, I don't believe that is the way it has to be done, but I deliver with loving compassion for whatever the individual may be living through at this time, and attempt to prepare them for what is to come.
     Another person asked me, if a parent dies and they have three children, can and does the parent choose to be around one of those children more than another.  From what I've been shown through the years, it is similar to talking to God, or calling on an angel for assistance, they can be omnipresent.   In our human experience we attempt to put those human limits on God, angels and our loved ones in the spirit realm, and they just don't belong in that realm.  We use our human minds to try and understand things that are not of the human worlds.  Words to describe the spirit realm and it's capabilities have not advanced to the level of what is possible in that dimension.  Our loved ones, just like angels and God can be present in multiple places at one time.  They can hear multiple things at once, and can do multiple things at once.  We are attempting to use limits imposed by the human aspect of things to describe and understand things that are not of the human element.
     As always, I hope that this entry finds you in good spirits, it helps you to understand one more piece of our spiritual puzzle.  I send you love and light, and ask  you to take the word impossible, and turn it into I AM POSSIBLE.  Know that anything you want, desire, dream is very Possible, you need only to believe it and start creating it.  If you wish to book an appointment send an email, or visit my website www.heavencallingearth.com  Join us on Facebook, twitter and linkedin.

Psychic Reading for Spiritual Beings Having a Human Experience

     I hope you are enjoying this holiday season, no matter what the holiday is that you are celebrate.  It has been requested again that I answer a few questions about psychics, psychic mediums, and the information that we get.  First, I'd like to say that I'm of the belief that none of us has all the answers.  And as psychics and psychic mediums we, too, are on the same journey as everyone else.  We are all spiritual beings having a human experience.  Where we are on that journey varies from person to person.  There are people that realize and are awakened to the fact that we are spiritual beings having  human experience, and there are others that are still firmly planted in the concept that we are human beings having a spiritual experience.  And which side of that camp you land on has direct impact on what experiences you have, and how you interpret those experiences.
     At times some think one experience is  more important than another.  This is point of contention among many.  My personal philosophy on this is, while a certain experience that I have may be more important to me than another experience that I have, but none of my experiences are more important to another person than the ones they have.  The reason for that is that while we are collectively on a soul journey, we are also individually on a our soul journey.  In other words, the sum total of my experiences impact my soul journey, as do the sum total of another person's experience impact theirs.  It's the end result of those things that make us who we are, and help us to grow as spiritual beings.  The individuals who are still under the thought process that we are human beings having a spiritual experience are just as important as the other way around.  For those individuals have not yet reached the awakening that this human experience is only one aspect of who and what we are.  If one hasn't reached that point yet, it's difficult to wrap your mind around that concept.
    A thought that recently came to the forefront of my thinking is, what if, like in the James Cameron movie, Avatar, there are multiple dimensions, and we know that there are, and we can create an Avatar, if you will, to travel into that other dimension.  Now, give some thought to this is the dimension in which in our bodies this is the Avatar.  Our human body is the avatar, and the experiences we have are the creation of our thoughts.  In other words, we are creating this reality by our thoughts, and where the majority of the humans spend their time thinking, worrying about, and creating has manifested the situations we find ourselves in today.  Wouldn't that mean we have the ability to change the bad things, turn them into good things.  We can create abundance for every living being on the planet, in the universe, in this dimension.  There really is no shortage of anything, there really is no illness.  We create them by our thought energy.  We spend time creating lack, we spend time creating anger, hatred, war.  The majority of people now have at some point heard about Power of Positive Thinking, by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale; The Secret, by Rhonda Byrne, The Law of Attraction, by Esther and Jerry Hicks; and let's not leave out Conversations with God, by Neale Donald Walsh.  All of these books talk about what we can create by our thoughts.  Thoughts become words, words are energy.  Words have Power.  We create our own realities by our thoughts and our words.
     One might question if individuals in control know this, individuals with political power, world power, why then would they not encourage people to think about the abundance, think about love, peace, health, and healing?  Well, the short answer to that is it is not to their benefit for societies to know that they have this kind of power.  And or people to come together in these types of meditations and prayers knowing that they can create all that is desired and all the tis needed.  The individuals in that kind of control and power are usually driven by greed, or someone else's greed.  You cannot control large groups of people if those people know they can create their own happiness and abundance without you.  You know longer have a need to be dependent on them for decisions that effect you.  The groups of people are not in fear of not having food, they're not in fear of being terrorized, or killed in their own lands.  It's a form of enslavement.  Enslavement to their thought process for their benefit.  As more of souls awaken to the fact that we are spiritual beings having a human experience and that we are creating that experience for our soul growth, it is a freeing from all of these kinds of enslavement.  That thinking alone is enslavement.  Isn't it time that more and more people wake up and break free of those bonds that keep us tied down by someone else's agenda.
     Recently I was asked when doing psychic readings, or psychic medium readings would the vast majority of people rather I tell them what they want to hear, or tell them what I do hear and see.  This varies with the individual having the reading.  While there are readers that will tell a client what they want to hear for fear that the person will be upset with them for telling them what they do hear and see, I am not one of those readers.  My belief is in this regard is that I am allowed to decide how I deliver the message, I am not at liberty to choose what messages I deliver.  Also, if something that may seem of a negative nature comes through to me to give to a client it is for one of two reasons, one because it is something that can be changed; i.e. I see a possible car accident or something of this nature, if that was inevitable and could not be changed they would not show it to me.  But let's say I'm getting the message that "Aunt Sallie" is ill with a terminal illness, and she's not gong to recover and there are things that need to be said and haven't been, then I'm shown that it's time to make sure all things have been addressed, to give the person the opportunity to say, I love you, I'm sorry, whatever they need to say, so there will be no regrets.  My longtime friend and radio host, Scott Cluthe, whom I've done radio with for years, introduces me on his show as someone who doesn't sugar coat things, he says I tell it like it is.  I do not deliver in a harsh or cruel manner, I don't believe that is the way it has to be done, but I deliver with loving compassion for whatever the individual may be living through at this time, and attempt to prepare them for what is to come.
     Another person asked me, if a parent dies and they have three children, can and does the parent choose to be around one of those children more than another.  From what I've been shown through the years, it is similar to talking to God, or calling on an angel for assistance, they can be omnipresent.   In our human experience we attempt to put those human limits on God, angels and our loved ones in the spirit realm, and they just don't belong in that realm.  We use our human minds to try and understand things that are not of the human worlds.  Words to describe the spirit realm and it's capabilities have not advanced to the level of what is possible in that dimension.  Our loved ones, just like angels and God can be present in multiple places at one time.  They can hear multiple things at once, and can do multiple things at once.  We are attempting to use limits imposed by the human aspect of things to describe and understand things that are not of the human element.
     As always, I hope that this entry finds you in good spirits, it helps you to understand one more piece of our spiritual puzzle.  I send you love and light, and ask  you to take the word impossible, and turn it into I AM POSSIBLE.  Know that anything you want, desire, dream is very Possible, you need only to believe it and start creating it.  If you wish to book an appointment send an email, or visit my website www.heavencallingearth.com  Join us on Facebook, twitter and linkedin.