"What are our loved ones seeing, and what are their surroundings?" Susan Mores.
Susan, this is a very good question. The surroundings seem to change with individuals. When they first arrive, there is usually a very bright light. Then it would seem that our "earthly" belief system kicks in for a little while. In other words, if you have a belief that you are going to go through some pearly gates, you will see those, or if you believe there is a big meadow, then that will be your first experiences. Then the longer one is on the other side, there is a "life" there as well, and it conforms to helping the soul grow.
"Can they hear us talking to them?" Remember, they are in the spirit realm now, so they can hear us when we speak out loud to them, and they can hear it when we think of them. You know, like when you are having a conversation in your head. I have people say to the effect, I'd like to make a phone call to heaven. Well, when you have a psychic medium reading, in essence you are making a phone call to heaven. When you set that intention in place, you are calling on your spirit guides, guardian angels and loved ones that have crossed over, and letting them know you have this planned. I have found that in quite a large number of cases, the loved ones that have crossed over are the ones who have guided people to me in the first place. So, I would say they are well aware of your intention and desire to communicate with them.
"What signs do you look for to know if your child has psychic abilities, and how do you teach them to embrace it, versus being afraid or shutting it down?" Freida Waugh. A good question indeed. First, we are all born with some degree of psychic abilities. I call it our internal GPS. That gut feeling, that knowing. But there are some that are more psychic than others. Key indicators that you are dealing with a child that is very psychic, or even psychic medium are sometimes the same types of signs that a child is an old soul. A child that tells you a relative that has passed away before the child was born can be a sign, the child telling you they know the person, recognizes pictures of the person, or says this person comes to visit them. Also, a child that is able to look at situations and very casually give an analysis or a solution to an issue that even an adult fails to see. Most children do not even realize that they are seeing things (people that have crossed over) that others can't see until they are told that the others around them don't see what they see. And along that same line, they don't know to be afraid of it, unless that fear is shown to them, or taught to them in some form or fashion. Children that grow up around people who embrace these things have it easier than children who have people telling them it's wrong, or it's a sin. Then the fear factor comes in, and the shutting down. Teaching them to meditate as young as possible is always a good thing.
"What is heaven like, is it clouds, sunshine? Do we really know what it's like?" These questions have been asked many times and in many different ways. The answer to this is very complex. Is heaven in the clouds? It is in the clouds, but it's further away than that, and yet closer than that at the same time. As children we all have probably thought of God and the angels sitting in the clouds. We've all looked the clouds and seen different shapes of things, and at some point it has been a message for us. There is the spirit realm that co-exists with us, but in a different dimension, if you will. But there's also the spiritual realm that's out in the Universe and the heavens that's out there beyond the clouds. A statement that I was given one night while laying and contemplating, It's everywhere and yet it's nowhere, it's beside us, and yet a million miles away. We are given answers like this because in our human language there are not words to completely and totally describe it in its entirety.
"What age are people that are in heaven?" Lone Vinding Malast. In the psychic readings and psychic medium readings that I have done for people, the loved ones come across as the age they were when the left this earth so that their family and friends will recognize them. We have bodies on earth, and they show themselves in these bodies (suit of clothes) when communicating with me. That's merely to allow themselves to be recognized. Also another element that is used is their personalities, their likes and dislikes. The soul age is a different matter than the physical age that is on earth. There are times when a person will feel as though a younger age of themselves would be more recognizable so they will come in that age. But in heaven or the spirit realm we have no need for a physical body, that's an earth thing.
"Nana said 3:33, 12:12, and 1:11 means an ancestor is with you." Kathy Mallory. This may well be the case. I don't argue over a person's beliefs, because it is their truth, which is taught to them in their culture. Different cultures mean there are different meanings to things. I do know that seeing numbers in repetition also means there is a synchronicity that is happening. Our relatives and ancestors do visit, and they do so more often than most people think.
And to finish off the edition of the blog, I give you an image of the word Believe. "What signs do we look for?" as asked by Kellie Wilkins-Dorn. Our loved ones give us many different kinds of signs. They are able to manipulate energy, because we are energy. Light bulbs flickering on and off, or burning out. Causing a certain song to be played on the radio or tv. They can make us feel a physical touch somewhere on our body. Another one that they use frequently is our sense of smell. You will smell a cologne, or cigarette smoke, or a particular type of tobacco that no one uses, except the loved one in heaven. These are just a few of the signs that are used. I encourage to you acknowledge your loved one's presence. By doing so they know you're paying attention and will give you more. Always remember, life doesn't end with death on earth, it just means it's beginning again in another dimension that we call heaven.
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