What to Expect in a Psychic Reading.

When you decide that you want to get a psychic reading you should have an idea of what to expect.  As you know from reading the prior posts, not all readings are alike. First, make sure you have done your research.  Now that you have done your research you've read my blogs, the testimonials on the different sites, you have chosen to have a session with me.  You can call to set up an appointment, or send an email.  We then go through whether you want a daytime, or evening appointment, and we set a time that is convenient.  Sessions can be done in person, or over the phone.  Many people wonder if the session is over the phone, will that effect the messages that come through?  The answer to that is, no.  When I am communicated with Spirit, be it loved ones that have crossed over, or Spirit Guides, or Angels they are already crossing dimensions to communciate with us to begin with.  They really don't care if the person is in front of me in the same room, or if they are thousands of miles away, the messages will be the same.  It then becomes a personal preference for you/the client.  As the appointments are set up, we take a first name and a phone number, payment is done through the website.  Sometimes people may want to share right then what it is that they are looking to connect with.  In these cases I always stop and say, please, do not tell me what you are looking for.  It makes the reading cleaner and clearer.  And you will have no doubt where the information came from.  I will tell you, however, please, think about what it is that you would like to connect with during our appointment.  We will start the appointment with me giving you all the information that comes through, and then I will leave time at the end for you to ask quesitons, in the event that I haven't covered something that you are looking for.   When you set an appointment you set an intention, and this basically puts out a call to your loved ones and your spirit guides that this is their chance to connect with you.
  Now to explain how the information does come through in a reading, I would like to start with someone who is hoping to connect with a loved one who has crossed over, and I used crossed over, because my feeling is that when someone dies on earth it is merely crossing to another dimension.  They die here and are born in the new dimension.  Meditation is a key for connection.  On a daily basis I meditate before my sessions with clients.  There are times that loved ones will start to come through to me before the day of the appointment.  It can happen as soon as you set the appointment, they get anxious sometimes.  So in cases like that, I make notes so that I may share it with you when it is the set time.  When you arrive we have a seat and begin our session.
  Information is given to me in a number of different ways.  One of the ways is by virtue of me being empathic.  They will make me feel something.  Let's say someone died in a car accident and they had a head trauma, I feel a momentary blow to the head.  Or if they there was Alzheimer's, I may feel like being here and then  not being here, like a sort of confused feeling.  A heart issue could come with a chest pain.  These feelings are momentary for me and as soon as I relay the message, they leave me.  Another way to convey things is by sight.  I will actually see them standing in the room with us, or they will show  me a little movie in my head.  When I convey this scene to you, and as we go through the movie scenes they will make sense to you.  Spirits can also make themselves heard by me.  And the messages that they will come through with will be things that will make sense to you.  Because while they have moved  to another dimension they come through with the same personality and looks that you knew them to have.  They do this so that you can and will know that it is them that is coming through.  Their purpose is help you heal your grief and let you know that the love goes on.  Their Spirit/Soul lives on, and so does their love for you.  They may bring through things that happened while they were alive, and they will also bring through things that have happened since their passing so that you know they can still see what is going on in your life.  After I have give you all the messages that they have for you, it is then that I give you an opportunity to ask questions.  I may periodically ask you in the session, does this make sense to you.  When I do, it is merely to make sure that I am interpretting what I am seeing or hearing properly.  I am looking for a yes or no about whether it does indeed make sense.  No elaboration is needed at that point. 
Besides psychic medium readings, I do psychic readings as well.  All mediums are psychics, but not all psychics are mediums.  When I do a psychic reading, the ability to see the past, the present and what the possibilities are for the future.  You may be dealing with a situation in our life and you want some insight as to what may happen with it.  I say possibilites, because not all things are set in stone.  We as humans have the ability to change the outcome of something that is yet to come in the future by our freewill.  And again, I remind you here, if anyone tells you that they can make something happen for you, get you back together in a relationship, or something of this nature, this is not the kind of psychic reader that you want to deal with.  They are running a scam and will end up hurting you.  No one has the ability to make anything happen in your future, but you.  While I can see what possibilities are, you are the one in control, always. 
  I hope that this entry is helpful to you.  And until next time.  Universal Love and Light to you.

Best Psychics

     In my last posting I talked about the different types of readings.   For this edition I would like to talk about how to pick a psychic, or psychic medium to do a reading for you.  Choosing the person to do your reading is an important decision.  There are a number of factors that go into making the right choice.  Sometimes readers will offer a free question, or a test reading, this can be good, but not everyone will offer free readings.  Don't let this be the only factor that you use in making your decision as to who will do your full reading.  Another part of the decision is sometimes based on price.  What you can afford plays in, but if you have a choice between a reader who charges a little bit more than you can afford, and one that is less pricey, but is not a good fit, you would be better off waiting until you save enough for the reader that charges more.  There are readers who will draw you in with a low price reading, say $5, $15, or a $20 reading.  After they draw you in, they gain your confidence and trust, and will tell you something along the lines of you have a black cloud of negativity following you, or you have a curse on you, and they can get rid of it for you.  First, if anyone ever tells you something like this you need to run, not walk in the opposite direction.  Second, if you do have negative things going on in your life, you have a life-lesson to learn, and when you learn the lesson things will turn for you.  No one else can remove a cloud of negativity for you or a curse.  You do not need to pay anyone to do that for you.  You have to look at what is going on in your life and figure out what you need to learn from the situation.  If someone tells you they can reunite you with a lost love, this is another sign they are running a scam.  No one has that ability.
  It's also a good idea to do a search and look at the readers' websites.  If there is a picture of the reader, look at that and see if you feel a connection.  Look at all pages on the sites, see how professional they are, and read about the readers, learn a little bit about them.  If they have done radio shows, listen to the archives of the radio shows.  Read testimonials, in doing so don't just read them on the readers' sites, also look at other sites, like google reviews, city search reviews, yellow pages reviews, and bing.  These types of reviews are usually done by people that have been read by the psychic or the psychic medium and can be very helpful in making your decision as to who will be doing your session.
  These are just a few of the factors that you should consider when choosing a psychic or psychic medium to do your reading.  I hope that these hints help you make a good choice in having a session.  Always remember there are good psychics and psychic mediums, and there are bad ones, just like all other professions.  Do not let one bad experience completely turn you off.  There are time when having a reading can be very helpful, but if you have had a bad experience you may be wary of trying it again.  Do your research first, and listen to your own internal guidance about who is the best fit for you to have a reading with.  And if you know someone who has had a personal session with someone, ask them about it.  Word of mouth referrals are always good.  People will tell you if they have had a good session with someone, or it's been a bad one. 
  Until the next time I wish you all Universal Love and Light.